hello. my fiance lives in pakistan and i live in california. we have been engaged for 7 months. over the past 7 months every single day he h...

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hello. my fiance lives in pakistan and i live in california. we have been engaged for 7 months. over the past 7 months every single day he has been hacking my emails and my facebook account. as much as i have changed emails and passwords he always manages to hack them. i wanted to end it with him but he has pictures of me that he made me send him and hes threatening to send them to all of my family as well as post them online. he has already sent those pictures to other guys. he also says he has a software on his computer that allows him to see who i text and who i call. and he even proved to me that he can. hes threatening to tell my family and show them the pictures and say that i sent them when he did. i dont know what to do i want to leave him but he has so much on his computer and hes trying to blackmail me with it. please help me

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If you marry him he will continue to act in the same way and likely will feel he has the right to physically injury you if you disobey him. Post on your Facebook that it has been hacked by a jealous former boyfriend and take it down. Ask a computer consultant if he could have implanted some program allowing him to see your e-mail, etc., and how that can be cured, change all passwords, admit what happened to your parents telling them the least in details and have them contact his parents, write him pointing out that what he is doing is both a civil and criminal wrong and since the American authorities can find out about it, he wil be barred from entering the US, if that is what he wants, etc. You have to realize anything put on the internet has the possibility of coming back and harming you.