My daughters father is obligated by law (custody order) to inform me on all events pertaining to our child but continues to leave me out of ...

Question

My daughters father is obligated by law (custody order) to inform me on all events pertaining to our child but continues to leave me out of the loop yet the girlfriend has full access. His girlfriend has taken on a mother role to our child. She volunteers at her school and her extracurricular activities - consistently. Even after attempts to gain information from him, I am still left in the dark - its like pulling teeth yet the girlfriend has full access to all information and uses it to her advantage. She volunteers at school functions (class functions ) as well as the extracurricular activities.

While I do believe she is a good role model to our child, I asked for her to step back a bit but my concerns are laughed at. Boundaries are being crossed. Is there anything I can legally do about this?

Answer

You need to take your order to an attorney for his/her review and see if a contempt can be filed. The question is, if information on-line is available to you, or if you were in contact with the school, why don't you know of the classroom functions and extracurricular activities? You need to be proactive in being a part of your child's life.